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Voices in Dark Skies - S.K. Orr

4/5/2019

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S.K. Orr is an American writer, poet, and former marine who maintains Steeple Tea, a well-written and thought-provoking blog filled with stories, poems, and reflections. I became aware of S.K after he left a comment on my blog a few months ago. Since then, I have become a regular reader of what he refers to as his obscure little blog. I am particularly fond of Orr's reflective pieces, which often contain penetrating and poignant insights into life, religion, and human nature.

In an excerpt from his most recent post, Voices in Dark Skies, a low-flying mallard inspires S.K. to examine why most people rarely take the time to think before they speak:  
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For some years now, I have been hyper-aware of how few people take the time to truly think about things before they try to formulate opinions. If you stand in a group and ask a question out of nowhere — “Why do you suppose women with red hair really do seem to be more gregarious? — the answers will come quickly and in battalions. But when the question is of more weight and substance than hair color — “Can we know that our sufferings have meaning, even aside from the pat answers we’ve been taught?” — the responses are no less swift and no less numerous.


But have the people tossing out the answers really stopped to think about these things? I do not believe they have. I believe people in this age have become convinced that to be unable or unwilling to articulate an instantaneous and reasonable-sounding response is a gross sin. It doesn’t matter that most snap-back answers are verbal Cool Whip. To be without a quick answer is much worse than simply offering a stupid response with boldness.

When is the last time you heard a person, after being asked an out-of-the-blue question, answer, “I don’t know. I’ll have to think about that?”

I deliberately answer in just this way when I am asked a question that catches me off-guard, and I can attest that the people doing the asking do not like it. Not one bit. To deflect a question with a stated intention to ponder carefully what the other person has asked is to say, “I’m going to slow things down, and I’m going to dissect what you asked, and why you asked, and I’m going to draw my own conclusions.” Oh, no…they’re not going to have any of that.
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​Read the whole thing here.


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S.K. Orr link
4/12/2019 04:21:42

Francis, I was stunned when I read your post about my blog. Your remarks about my writing left me humbled. Please let me say in complete sincerity that I count finding your blog as one of the most significant and enjoyable discoveries of several years. To have a writer like you praise a writer like me is, well, almost incomprehensible. Thank you so much for your support and your friendship, and especially for your blog. It is a rich, powerful arena of thought and observation.

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Francis Berger
4/12/2019 06:07:50

Thanks, SK. Keep writing!

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